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Joyce Psikal

August 12, 1946 — March 6, 2022

Joyce Jane (Graham) Psikal, 75, born August 12, 1946, in Stillwater, OK to Ralph James Graham and Mary Louise (Flesner) Graham, passed away March 6, 2022, in Andover, KS.

Joyce attended schools in Perry, Redrock, and Hunter, then graduated from high school in Marshall Oklahoma and then attended Enid Business College.   She worked many jobs in her life, but her favorite was the 34 years she worked at Conoco.  She also worked for the Kaw Nation Gaming Commission for several years.

Joyce was a friendly outgoing person who had many friends and acquaintances. She was a member of the First United Methodist Church in Newkirk, Oklahoma where she loved to volunteer and seemed to know everyone.  She never met a stranger and made friends wherever she went.  Joyce volunteered for many fundraising activities and events at Conoco, and for Hospice, like golf tournaments and bowling tournaments. She was a member of the Red Hat Club in Ponca City and really enjoyed the comradery.  Her smile, warm hugs, and the joy she brought to all will be deeply missed.

Joyce is survived by her brother James Graham and wife Darlene, Her sisters Beverly Wright and Linda Thompson and sister-in-law Paula Graham; her children Jeff and Reda Psikal, Susan Psikal Sawyer and husband Jim, and Melissa Perez-Vargas.  Also left to cherish their memories of her are eight grandchildren: Daniel Koelsch (Shelsey), Andrea Sawyer, Gabby Pemberton (Josh), Angela Sawyer (Alan Lo), Ryan Deel(Leslie), Laura Greenwell(Sebastian Galendo), Javier Perez-Vargas, and Julian Perez- Vargas ;  and nine great-grandchildren(three more due in August), as well as numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, other family members and an unmeasurable number of  friends.

She is preceded in death by her parents, brother Steven Graham, brothers-in-laws Larry Thompson and Dewey Wright.

Services under the direction of Miller Stahl Funeral Home will be held on Friday March 11, 2022, at the United Methodist Church in Newkirk at 2 p.m. with Pastor Hartlan Coats officiating.

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Friday, March 11, 2022

Starts at 2:00 pm (Eastern time)

First United Methodist Church

101 S Walnut Ave, Newkirk, OK 74647

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